Guides

Guides for women meeting a couple and for couples who want to be chosen: safety, first date, what works and what rules you out.

• Find a unicorn without being creepy: a guide for couples

  Why women don't reply to couples, and how to find a unicorn by showing up as two real people rather than as a request. What works, what rules you out.

• Your first threesome with a couple: how to stay safe

  Your first threesome with a couple: check they really are two people, set your limits first, meet somewhere public, tell a friend, leave when you want.